
This is Granite with his Grandma
Tano in Summer 2004. We went to Hawaii that Summer and this was the only time I met her. She sadly left us on Feb. 18, 09 at the age of 95 and so the whole reason we went back to Oahu was for her funeral. At first it was just going to be Granite's parents as well as him and his sister Pebbles (
Azha) going.
Bahii (
Tazbaa) and her husband already decided they were going to go. After receiving the offer from Granite's sweet parents to help us with the tickets, we could not refuse. So the whole family was fortunate enough to go.
Beatrice
Yoshika Kono Tano is her full name. And so that is how
Kono got his name. It's her maiden name. She is full Japanese but was born in Hawaii and lived there until she left the Earth. She definitely had the "aloha" style with the way she treated others. This woman was so talented at making sushi and sewing so many things. She sewed all her life, making clothes for her own children while they were young and many quilts and bags for her grandchildren and friends. She did everything by hand too! That's the part that really amazes me. Ever since she became a convert to the church with her husband Benito
Barlaan Tano, they never stopped going to church. They have always paid their tithing even when Grandpa
Tano was only making 5 to 10 cents an hour while working in the pineapple fields. This was a long time ago when he was earning this much. They raised their family in the gospel and because of this, most of their posterity are active members in the church. This is so neat to me and and such a blessing to be part of the
Tano family. Beatrice and Benito had 8 children, 57 Great-grandchildren, and 1 Great-great granddaughter so far. I never got to meet Grandpa
Tano since he passed away when Granite and I were engaged. It was fun to be around Grandma
Tano though because she always said funny things (without meaning to) and was so
cuuute and nice. My sister Celeste went with us on that trip and she asked her "Are you married yet?" (She was only like a sophomore in high school). Celeste said "No" of course and Grandma's reply was " Oh no rush, no rush, you're still young." She asked her again another time (this was when she was starting to get forgetful) and after Celeste told her "No" again, she said "Oh, you need to find yourself a husband." I loved the way she talked, it was slight pigeon. One of her grandsons, Derek, talks pigeon "to the max" and she could understand him. This made Celeste and I laugh because we could barely understand him but I guess it makes sense, she grew up in Hawaii all her life. We shared a room with her one night and when she was asked if it was okay if Celeste shared the air-mattress with her she said "It's okay, just as long as she doesn't steal my blankets". :) She asked a few times if Celeste and I were twins and she also said we were pretty. Celeste said one thing she remembers is seeing he kneel for prayer even at the age of 90, what a great example she showed.
Her funeral services was the best I have ever been to. This was because it was an
LDS funeral where everything was gospel based. This meant that there wasn't extreme emotions of not knowing where she is, where she'll go and wondering if you'll see her again. It was not a service where you'd get bored or tired from sitting. It was interesting, uplifting, and planned well. One of her famous quotes was "The church is true, so don't make me late!" It was said that she always made it to church on time but was mostly early. She will be greatly missed and remembered by so many.

Kono at the airport, excited to be boarding the plane soon.

It was Kono's first time on the airplane. We were seated at the tail of the plane making it very
bumpy during turbulence.
Kono was laughing the whole time from feeling "butterflies" in his tummy. Others felt either sick or scared but not
Kono.

Kono just had to hold
Miya before take off.

This was
Kono's first time at the beach. I felt so bad that it wasn't a good experience for him due to the windy weather which made it very cold and not pleasant to be at the beach. The water was a little bit warm but you had to be underneath it and moving to stay warm.

I took
Kono and
Nahoa back to our rental van because they were both shivering. I've never seen
Kono so cold before, it made me feel so bad for him. I put him in dry clothes and wrapped him in a blanket and he was still shaking and shivering so much.
Whenever
Nahoa or anyone else mentioned the beach, he would get upset. Poor guy, next time we take him, I'll make sure it's in the summer. You can't really tell from the picture, but the water is such a beautiful blue color, it's sooo pretty to see the beach here.

I love
Kono in this shirt he is wearing.

This was at the "viewing" before services. I love these guys.


Kono is so handsome in his white shirt and "aloha" tie.

Here is a picture of the
Tano family years ago. Both the white and pink and purple and pink
traditional Hawaiian quilts were made by Grandma
Tano.

Kono gave me this tiny flower to wear in my ear. He says I'm a princess.


This was at the burial. She was buried right next to her husband. It's too bad it was a cold day. It was actually quite cool (but nice) the whole time we were there. It was nice to not see and get bitten by mosquitoes though.

Granite drinking a poi flavored bubble tea. It's not made from tea, it's just a sort of smoothie almost with these gummy textured
mochi balls that you slurp up. I got a mango one. I wasn't too crazy about these drinks but Granite loved them.

We eat at this place called
Genki Sushi where there is a Sushi
cheif in the center of the
restaurant. He makes all different kinds of sushi and places it on a a fancy conveyor belt the circles the
restaurant. So all you do is sit at your booth and when you see one that
you want (and are willing to pay for of course) you simply grab the plate off and eat it. The plates are color coded so you know what the prices are. It was yummy sushi. I didn't try a big variety only
because I am pregnant and can't be eating raw fish and unknown things.
Kono kept wanting to grab one and I didn't want him to because I didn't think he would like sushi. But he did like this egg one that had a slightly sweet taste.

Kono was so proud of himself when he was finally told he could grab one off and he did it successfully.

Granite is having a grand time trying different types of sushi.

From my chubby cheeks, it looks like I eat a ton, but only had like three plates worth. (And the sushi rolls aren't very big). This was probably from being in Hawaii a few days of doing mostly eating at family gatherings. It's a good thing I don't live here, I'd probably would have gone to the weight gain limit by now. Hahahaha!

There were eight of us adults there and a few of them were competing to see who could eat the most plates (which aren't very big). All together we ate 64 plates! Granite's good cousin
Keao was kind enough to pay for us all!

Granite's cousin Amy acting so full from the food.
Bahii was there too but had left the table when we took the pictures.

We made it in the nick of time for the famous and authentic
Matsumoto's Hawaiian Shave Ice.
Kono loved it but we were cold when we ate it.


We then went to this beach (I forget the name) to go see if we can find these giant turtles that often hang out on top off the rocks on shore and eat the
algae. They weren't there at the time. Too bad, Kono would have loved to see them.

There's Amy looking for those turtles.

We didn't even take a picture at the beach on a sunnier day. (It's just like me to do something like this). This was taken in the evening.

Cute Kono with his hands on his face.

Kono wearing Local slippers. He looked sooo cute in them and loves wearing slippers.

On our way back home. Kono got to sit by the window this time but he was so tired that he fell asleep before take off. He was awake before and during landing though so he got to see all the lights from way up on top of Las Vegas. Kono didn't want to take another picture. I have few more pictures to post (from other family members cameras) so I will be making another post soon.
Oh yes, if you are ever planning on going to Hawaii I recommend going with Hawaiian Airlines. The stewardesses are so kind and they serve a free meal (most airlines now charge).